Showing posts with label Eddie. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Eddie. Show all posts

Monday, February 20, 2012

40th Birthday Party


Thursday was Eddie's 40th birthday. I know, I am MUCH too young to be married to a 40 year old. I know. I don't know how that happened.

Anyway, his birthday was Thursday. He went to an Ole Miss basketball game Thursday night, so the kids and I gave him his gifts on Wednesday night.

But, that just wasn't good enough for him! Since Thursday, he has been moaning and groaning that "this was the first time in 40 years" that he hasn't had a birthday cake.

Little did he know!!

(I took pictures Friday when we decorated and I tried to remember to take some tonight during the actual party, but I didn't do so well, but it turned out great, and was lots of fun!)

Birthday Banner
Cake Table
Tables with very wrinkled tablecloths!!
Centerpiece for food table
The food table...lined with pictures of Eddie from birth up
Food label cards
Cupcakes....with 40 on top made out of chocolate
The Cake....see, he DID get one!

Tim had to light it with a torch!
This has to be a fire hazard!
He got them all!
Cake Pops


The only shot I got of the whole room
I couldn't figure out a theme. I didn't want to do "over the hill," but I did like having a touch of black in there. Went with black, white and red and I thought it turned out so cute!! We had so much food!! So many people pitched in, and we had.....brownies, cheese balls, spinach and artichoke dip, fiesta corn dip, spinach sandwiches, chicken salad sandwiches, cucumber sandwiches, taco cheese log, ham ring, pigs in a blanket, party mix, crab dip, broccoli and cheddar quiche, cream cheese and pepper jelly, cheese and bacon quiche, mini cinnamon rolls, and 7-layer dip. We had soft drinks, water, coffee and punch. And of course, the wonderful cake, cupcakes and cake pops made by Lindsey.  Turned out so great!!

He is so hard to surprise, but we pulled it off! There was a great turn out, and we had so much fun!!

Happy Birthday, Eddie!

Linked this up with the TipJunkie.... 
Tip Junkie handmade projects

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Our Love Story

Oh my word, y'all! How has it been almost 2 weeks since I last posted? Y'all must be in serious withdrawals (ha!).

I have been working on a few projects, and I do not multitask very well, obviously! When I am working on a project, I tend to have tunnel vision, so everything else is neglected. Including, I'm sorry to say, the blog. But I'll show y'all what I've been working on soon!

But, in honor of Valentine's Day, I wanted to link up with Becky and share with y'all mine & Eddie's love story!!

1. How long have you and your significant other been together?
Eddie and I have been together since September of 1997, so almost 15 years! Wow!
2. How did you meet? {What's your "love" story?}
I have always known Eddie, and always had a crush on him. He was our youth intern when I was in the youth group. (He is 7 years older than me)
Some pictures from before we dated..I was in high school, he was our intern
This is my favorite pic!! Can you see how happy I am just to be around him?!
However, since it was a forbidden and an unrequited love, we didn't start dating until I was a freshman at Ole Miss and he was in seminary!
These are some of our first dates. Oh my...please excuse my plaid flannel shirt. YIKES!
 We dated for almost 2 years and knew we wanted to be married!
 3. If married, how long have you been married?

We got married in December of 1999, so we just celebrated 12 years.
Pics from a couple of our engagement parties

 4. If you are married, where did you get married at? Big or small wedding?  
We got married at our home church in Tupelo, Mississippi. What is considered big? Or small? We had a couple of hundred people there and most of the people we loved most in the world, so it was perfect!

   5. Do you have any nick-names that you call one another? Do share!
I call him Babe or Baby. He calls me Lou or Lou Lou. Nothing too exciting!
6. Name 3 things you love most about your honey.
Oh wow...
1. I love his heart for the Lord and the way he seeks to lead his family to love God more fully.
2. I love how helpful he is. He will cook, clean, bathe babies, change diapers, fold clothes...he will take the initiative and do whatever he sees needs to be done. He just does it. No snide comments. No waiting on me to ask (usually). No complaining. SO helpful!
3. I love how supportive he is. I just love how all around awesome he is! 
It's so hard to choose 3!!!!
7. Tell us how he proposed? 
He was a pastor at a small church about 30 miles from Oxford (where Ole Miss is located). I was teaching a Wednesday night class to some children, and I walked in one Wednesday night to this....
8. Is he a flowers and teddy bear kind of guy for v-day, or strawberries, champagne, and rose petals?
Neither?! He does flowers sometimes. But we are more of a go out on a date kind of couple - dinner, get some coffee, walk through a bookstore- just hang out without 4 little ones clamoring for our attention. We don't do big gifts or anything for Valentine's Day.
9. Are you a sunset dinner on the beach kind of girl, or pop a movie in and relax on the couch?
Both?!!
10. Tell us one thing you'd like to do with your significant one day. If you could do anything? Go anywhere?
We like to travel....I'd like to do that again one day...cruises, trips to exotic places. 
A few pics from our before babies trips!
11. Tell us what you plan on doing on this Valentine's Day.
Well, we planned on going out to eat. Even had a sitter lined up. But the kids are going to stay with the grandparents this weekend, so we're postponing our date night until the weekend (when we have a free sitter!)
 
12. Are you asking for anything this Valentine's day?
Nope! We decided not to do gifts. All extra money is being saved up for our Disney trip this year!
Our first trip to Disney together...our honeymoon!
13. Give us one piece of advice of keeping a relationship strong and full of love. 
Put God first. Seriously...that sounds cliche or whatever, but marriage is hard. I cannot imagine how people make it without God as the center of it. People are naturally selfish, and you can't be selfish and be happy in your marriage. And you can't be unselfish without the help of God.
14.  Show us a picture of what love means to you.
I'm probably getting this all mixed up, but Mr. Watkins, a man whom Eddie greatly loved and respected, told him once something like: "Besides heaven, marriage is the greatest of all possible existences." So, my family is what love means to me. 
"We love because God first loved us." (1 John 4:19) I am so thankful that through Him, I can love these precious people He has blessed me with....
 

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Thankfulness Day #22....R-E-S-P-E-C-T

I am thankful that other people respect my husband as much as I do. I got this little email that is sent out to people in our area, and there was a special piece about Eddie in there. Apparently, the author of this little newsletter asked a few people from our church to write some thoughts on Eddie for this edition. Here's what they had to say:


a. I Have known Pastor Eddie for little over a year.  I’m old enough to be his “young-looking mother” and yet he is my PASTOR! 

Eddie came here and immediately captured our hearts but most important, he is a man after God’s own heart. His testimony is one that echoes humility and sincerity about his struggles and victories in his Christian journey—which makes it  even easier to relate to this mighty man of God.

The Holy Spirit continues to move in First Baptist Church and Dr. Eddie has been used as a key to open the door for greater things. There is a fresh excitement and  joy in the atmosphere under his leadership. We are seeing souls added to the Body of Christ daily. Eddie makes me laugh!!!!   Eddie makes me cry!!!!  As long as Ole Miss continues to rank low in the poles and LSU continues to be on top, I believe Eddie will continue to walk in humility all the days of his life.  

Seriously, we love our pastor and are so grateful that God sent him to us. 

b. I first met Brother Eddie at a deacon’s supper on a Thursday night before the weekend when he came in view of a call to our church.  This was a supper for the deacons to be able to get to know him and Stacy, before he preached that Sunday morning. 

I was supposed to leave for a mission trip in two days, but my grandmother had become very ill, and I was struggling with a decision about what to do.  I talked to him about it, and he gave me some very sound, wise advice.  He then asked me if he could pray for me, and at that moment, I knew he was for real. 

He called me the next day to check on me and see if I had made a decision.  Some people try to impress you spiritually, but some people just do what the Lord leads them to do.  He is in the latter group.  He was not trying to impress me or obtain my vote when he gave me advice,  prayed for me and checked on me.  That began a friendship that has deepened since then.  I followed his advice, and was very glad that I did so.

However, he doesn’t just give advice.  He also receives it, because he is a man that walks in humility.  It seems to me that so many spiritual leaders think that they are always correct, and refuse to seek advice from “ordinary” people.  Dr. W does not hesitate to ask for advice from members in his congregation, because he recognizes that the Lord speaks through other people at times, and he wants to hear from the Lord.

He is also a man of integrity.  What you see in the pulpit is what you see behind closed doors.  I know because he and I went on a mission trip to Haiti in May of 2011, and I lived in close quarters with him for a week.

Finally,  I don’t know if I have ever met any other preacher/pastor who is as down to earth and likeable as Dr. W.  Yet at the same time, he does not back down, but stands firm on principles and the Word. 

Our church has been greatly blessed by him and his family, and we have all grown to love him deeply.


c.One of the biggest challenges of faith for all of us is to trust God as we wait on a clear response to our prayers.
 
At First Baptist, our long-time and beloved pastor retired in June, 2009. and we set out to find God’s man to “shepherd our flock” for the years ahead.  Our body of believers benefitted in a deeply spiritual way in the following days and months, as we all agreed that we would not set our own expectations in the “search,” but that we would genuinely seek and patiently wait for God to clearly reveal His servant to us. 

After 15 months of continual prayer and diligent attention to this holy process, He led us to Dr. Eddie in Georgia.  He became pastor of our church on October 31, 2010.  I am positive that the Lord brought us together. 

Eddie, as he is affectionately known by our folks, has responded to this call with a heart for people and a passion for the preaching of God’s Word.  Not long after Eddie got here, I overheard several people saying, “What a great pastor!  He’s just a regular guy!” 

Later I went to Eddie, and voiced a slightly different sentiment.  I said to him,  “I am so thankful for you and your relationship skills, and even more so for your love for the Lord.  But I must tell you, I really don’t want you to  be ‘just a regular guy.’ I want you to be the best example of Christ that you can possibly be.” 

Eddie’s life experiences, especially as a child and teenager, allow him to effectively relate to so many that are hurting.  He is transparent: a quality that I greatly admire in any person, but especially in men, since we tend to keep our masks strapped on pretty tight!    

God has blessed Eddie beyond measure with relationship skills, and with a brilliant ability in the pulpit.  My prayer is that every day, for many, many years to come, Eddie will channel those magnificent gifts into actions that draw the response: “That’s Eddie W. He’s like a regular guy, but this guy is Jesus’ man. A man after God’s own heart.”  

 And here's what the editor added in: 
(Talking about the first time he met Eddie) -
Also there was DR. EDDIE W, pastor of the First Baptist Church. Eddie, who is one of the most humble, decent, and down to earth men I encounter in my faith walk, was asked to give the closing prayer. Thereafter followed one of the most heart-felt and inspirational prayers I have heard in some time.

Those residents who attend First Baptist Church are truly blessed to have Pastor Eddie in their midst and in their presence. He is truly a great ambassador for Christ and a role model for us all.

The first time I met and talked with Pastor Eddie I could sense he was a very special person and a very special pastor. We in Louisiana are blessed to have this man of God in our midst. We lift you up, pastor, and thank the Lord for blessing us with your presence.


  How cool is that?! I'm so thankful for a Godly, respectable husband!!

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Thankfulness day #13

Today I am thankful for time away with my sweet husband. For 2 nights. Alone.

And for my awesome mom for coming to stay with the kids.

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Thankfulness Day #3

Hand in hand with yesterday's blessing of marriage, today I am thankful for my husband, Eddie. I am thankful for his faith. For his love. For his friendship. For his strength. For his sense of humor. For his loyalty. For his encouragement. For his faithfulness. For his help. For his support. For his example. Somehow, God saw fit to pair me with this man, and for that, I am so thankful!!

Now...Halloween pictures of my babies...
So hard to get all of them looking and/or smiling at the same time
Strong Spidey
Silly Cinderella
Sweet Elmo
Unsure about this lion
Roar!!!  
What are you thankful for today??

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

The hubby




This is me and my wonderful, husband, Eddie. And here is our story:

I have known Eddie as long as I can remember. We grew up in the same town, and went to the same church. He is 6 1/2 years older than me, and I had a huge crush on him! He worked for our youth minister when I was in the youth group, which is how I got to know him.


(This pic is when I was in high school and he was interning in our youth group)

I graduated high school and went to Ole Miss, and he was in seminary at New Orleans. Being the avid Rebel fan that he is, he would come to Oxford for the football games, and we started dating! September 5, 1997 was our first date (no clue how I remember that!). He was a youth minister then. He graduated from seminary and became pastor of a precious little church in Pontotoc, MS (which is like 30 minutes from Oxford). He asked me to marry him at the church one Wednesday night and we were married in December of 1999, which was during my junior year of college. I was doing a lot of my observations for my elementary education degree, and could do much of my work in Pontotoc schools, which was really convenient. We then moved to Tupelo for him to pastor a different church, and I taught 4th grade until we had our first baby. We moved to Georgia to another church for 5 years (and 3 more babies), and moved to Louisiana last year which is where we hope to have our happily ever after!

What can I tell you about Eddie?? He is funny. He is charming. He is comfortable being himself. He can talk to anyone --and usually does! He is so hard to go anywhere with. I am constantly reminding him that he isn't running for mayor!! He is at home who he is in the pulpit. He is honest (sometimes that is unfortunate! ha). He is thoughtful. He is helpful...with the cleaning, the kids, the cooking, anything I need help with! He takes the initiative. He doesn't wait for me (or whomever) to ask him to do something....if he sees something that needs to be done, he does it. He loves cookies, ice cream, and hot fudge. He is a hard worker. He can be a perfectionist. He is direct (again, sometimes unfortunate!). He stays healthy and exercises consistently.  He is caring. He cares about the souls of people. He is honest. His favorite channel is the Food Network. He is fun. He has eyebrows that furrow so that he looks mad even when he isn't (and couple that with his tone that sounds mad even when he isn't is often unfortunate!!). He drinks decaf instant coffee every night before bed. He is loyal. He is respectable. He is trustworthy. He is wise. He loves sports. He loves hunting and fishing and golfing. He always tries to do the right thing. He falls asleep on the couch. He is called of God and gifted by God to be a wonderful preacher. He takes his role as pastor very seriously. He is humble. He stands up for what he believes in. He loves to bake. He doesn't back down from the Truth, even if it isn't popular. He likes to argue. He has no problem eating off of anyone else's plate! He truly grieves over his sin. He is a man that daily strives to be the man God desires him to be.

If you can't tell, I love this man! I am so blessed that God chose me to be his wife! I am so undeserving of the gift that he is to me. "I have found the one whom my soul loves." (Song of Solomon 3:4)

(And I still have a crush on him!!)